Jamaican women raping young boys — officials...."Men who are in the 16 to 20 age groups are reporting rape, men in the 30 to 35 age group are reporting now that older women are raping them.

 BY DONNA HUSSEY-WHYTE Sunday Observer staff reporter husseyd@jamaicaobserver.com  Sunday, November 02, 2014    ALTHOUGH a number of Jamaican men still smirk at the idea of a woman raping a man, the increasing number of calls to the Marge Roper Counselling Service and the National Family Planning Board hotline are showing that more and more males are reporting rape and are pointing towards older women as the perpetrators.

"A number of men are now reporting rape," National Family Planning Board Chair Dr Sandra Knight said. "Men who are in the 16 to 20 age groups are reporting rape, men in the 30 to 35 age group are reporting now that older women are raping them.

This is nothing new. Older women have always been having sex with our boys. But I think now, with the sensitisation that is out there, boys are now realising that if I did not consent to it, it is rape," she said.

But some men still say that this cannot be true.

"You cannot rape the willing," said Curtis Benjamin, 42, and father of three. "I don't think it is physically possible for a woman to overpower a man and rape him. What she can do is seduce him and he will get aroused. Then he is not going to walk away he will give in to her. So that is why he now becomes willing. Once you are willing it is not rape."

Ricardo Thomas, 40, shared the view.

"I feel it cannot happen, because if a man really doesn't want to have sex a man will just not have sex," Thomas said. "If another man comes to you as a man to rape you, you are going to fight him off tooth and nail, so if you don't want to have sex with a woman it should be the same thing, you going to fight her off tooth and nail too. What I would call him is a reluctant participant in some respect, but I wouldn't consider it rape," he added. "I would only consider it rape if a bunch of women hold you down and use dildo, etc. But as a man, if I don't want sex, I just don't want it, and if as the woman you decide to force me even further then she would leave with a bloody nose and a black eye, even though I don't believe in hitting women," he went on.

However, Dr Knight said that male rape should be taken seriously. more